No... no, it's not right. It's frightening. But we can't dwell on it, we gotta move forward, or it'll drive us all crazy. Or maybe just me. Maybe that's just how I'm dealing with it--moving forward because ruminating on it is really bad for me. I've done enough ruminating to know.

Anyway, the best we can do is stay careful. [A beat.] And write our memoirs. That might help.

And try to forgive.

[Sounds like there's a crux of the matter that's being reached.]